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My new boyfriend’s mom has cancer

Posted by on May 21, 2014 in Advice, Advice Column, cancer, Dating, Friendship, Relationships, Sex | 7 comments

  Write for Advice   Hi Cary, I am seeing a great guy, but things have recently become very ambiguous between us and I’m...

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I can’t get home to see my mom before she dies

Posted by on Apr 18, 2014 in Advice, Advice Column, cancer, Grieving, Parents | 2 comments

Cary’s classic column from WEDNESDAY, JUL 25, 2007   By the time you read this, she’ll probably be gone. Why couldn’t I...

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My abusive husband is dying and I have a lover. How good do I have to be?

Posted by on Apr 13, 2014 in abuse, Advice, Advice Column, cancer, divorce, family | 5 comments

Write for Advice Cary’s classic column Tuesday, JUL 21, 2003 What do I owe him? Dear Cary, Last year I went to visit a divorce lawyer,...

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She asked for a divorce, then found a lump in her breast

Posted by on Feb 3, 2014 in Advice, Advice Column, cancer, divorce, Relationships | 6 comments

  Cary’s classic column from MONDAY, DEC 22, 2008   I’ve been dating her husband, but now she wants him back!    ...

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Hooray! I’m covered! (by Covered California)

Posted by on Dec 20, 2013 in Affordable Care Act, Blog, cancer, Covered California, Obamacare, Uncategorized | 10 comments

Wow. I just completed my online application for health insurance in California, and I am amazed how easy and trouble-free it was. And now...

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El Farolito

Posted by on Dec 13, 2013 in Addiction, alcoholism, cancer, People, Recovery, Uncategorized | 0 comments

Below is a short piece from Cary that we included in today’s newsletter. When we originally decided to publish a weekly newsletter,...

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